It around places of them toys attractive and colored to stir up to catch them it them. To call them for the name frequently so that they try to raise the head to look who flame or to turn themselves or to roll if aproximar’ ‘ (P. 68) Lindquist (1993), salient despite, the carrying child of deficiency must feel relaxed insurance and, sensible capable to complete its activities alone, that is it is necessary that the therapist and parents inside promote autonomy in the child of its possibilities. The active participation of the parents and the fomentao of the autonomy of the child, and extremely beneficial for the promotion of its quality of life in hospitalization process. The CHILD, the DEATH AND HOSPITALIZATION kovacs (2007), says on the loss of next people and the suffering that event causes for the child.
Not to speak with the child on the occurrence? death? to protect it, it can have contrary effect and provoke more suffering, for the fact of the child not yet to know what it is happening and nor to possess experiences of as to deal with the feelings that appear ahead of the loss. Still in accordance with kovacs (2007), the psicoterpico work, in the most diverse boardings, points that the child perceive all movement about the death and express its feelings and distress in the tricks or graphical activities. The loss of the mother for a child during the motor and felt sensrio period as destruction and abandonment. During the adoecimento in a hospital the child needs the following cares: ‘ ‘ … – next familiar people mainly mother or person who is of the conviviality of the child, who can be present the biggest possible time; – much physical contact, exactly that the child is in the stream bed with sounding leads and pipes; – to offer stimulatons that favor the exercise and the exploration, making adaptation so that they can be installed in the stream bed.